Kindness without wisdom can get you into trouble because showing kindness to the wrong people can give you a lifetime of regret. An evil person will be drawn to you because of your kindness. They will see a relationship, what you see as a friendship. An unfaithful woman may get involved with two men because she is benefiting from the kindness from both of them. She doesn't see the risk due to the fact that she craves for the bling and the attention. Jealousy can blind our eyes to consequences, and it can also open our eyes to war.

 

I recently read an article about a fatality that came from a love triangle. One man ended up dead and the other ended up in prison. Some people will take from you, but they will never give you the love and respect that you deserve if they were not available when you were alive. They will never be faithful to you when you are in the cemetery or if you are in prison if you are unfaithful. Being in a relationship with someone who is faithful will never work because honesty and deceit do not make good partners. If you want to be trusted, you must be honest. If someone wants you in their life, they will put you there. You shouldn't have to fight for a spot. In Luke 8:17, it is written, there is nothing hidden that won't be revealed, and there is nothing secret that won't be known and come to light.

 

Heavenly Father, we pray for the marriages and the relationships that are ruined because of unfaithfulness. Merciful God, we pray that you remove the lustful behavior from those who find it hard to be committed to one partner. Lord, you said in your word no temptation has overtaken you. That is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability. But with the temptation, he will also provide the way of escape that you may be able to endure it. Lord, remove every bad habit that forces us to resolve our situation with anger and give us the spiritual strength so that we can walk away and not do anything that we may end up regretting. All these we ask in Jesus name, amen.